Sunday, January 10, 2016

December 14th: Transferred to Southport

I was transferred to Southport this week.  My new companion is Elder Ahlstrom, who is a really good missionary and I can learn a lot from him.  He is super relaxed but hard working and genuine.  He just really enjoys himself and has fun with life.  It’s good.  Before I left Crosby, Maria, our investigator in Crosby, gave me a mug with my name engraved on it which was the best gift ever.

Southport is a very posh area, and has a lot of older people as well.  We will have to work to find places that are worth tracting.  There are two other Elders in this ward, like there was in Crosby.  One of them is Swiss, and the other is from Kaysville.  It will be fun to get to know them too.  Southport is the largest ward I have served in so far.  There is typically 60 to 70 people there on Sunday rather than the 45 to 50 I have had in previous wards.   The chapel has proper benches and is really big for here.  A lovely building. 

The headaches that I had in Crosby are much better, and have gone away for the most part.  My hip continues to really bother me, and I have been going to physical therapy. 

Love you.

Thursday, December 17, 2015

November 16th—December 7th: Mission Conference, Thanksgiving, and a New Companion

November 16th
The mission had a special conference called “Time out of Elders” on their P-day, which was a great experience for Elder Tarbet and he really enjoyed it; however, it took his P-day, so our emails were very short with basically the phrase, “I’m fine…I’m busy…talk to you next week."

November 23rd
I really enjoyed the Mission Conference.  President Ulrich spoke about our health, both physical and spiritual, and had a question and answer session.  The best part was that I was able to spend some time and talk with Sister Ulrich. She is great and easy to talk to and is genuinely concerned and loves the missionaries.  The next two days after the conference, I had exchanges with Elder Jolley (from Viewmont) who is the Zions Leader, and it was the best!  It was so much fun!  We just had a great time, he is so natural, which is great. He has found that balance between having fun and working hard, which I have been striving to find.  I have had companions on each end of the pendulum, and I haven’t been able to find the middle.  I have learned that I need to find that balance and Elder Jolley has got it figured out.  While I was with him, we went and saw Sarah (Sister Collard—a member who we are trying to help come back to Church), and had a great time talking to her on the door step while Hurricane Barney knocked us back and forth and totally drenched us.  I was so stinking wet.  When we walked home (the trains were down because of the wind), it stopped raining and was just blowing like crazy, it actually worked like a giant hand dryer and dried us all out.  It felt similar to the wind storm we had back home a few years ago, but not quite as bad because we could still walk.   The next morning, we had the brilliant idea to go to the beach, the windiest part of the area.  It was good fun.  We actually talked to a couple, but they couldn’t really hear us over the wind.  At one point Elder Jolley pointed his umbrella straight into the wind to block the blowing water and he couldn’t open it, the wind was too strong to even push it open.  It was super fun. 

I truly love this area and the people that we are working with.  I have come to love most of the people that we are teaching—Davis is just fantastic and he is so sincere.   He has such a great desire to learn and to improve himself and to help others.  He is someone who you just know you can trust. 
  
November 30th
Well, my first Thanksgiving in the mission field.  We had two Thanksgiving dinners that were nice.  I loved the one at the Stanley’s because she is an American so it was a proper turkey and stuffing and everything and it was so good.  The mission dinner was okay, a catered turkey dinner.   Dave is really doing well.  He has recommitted himself to getting his life on track.  He feels like he’s in a rut and can’t get out.  He is going to try the addiction recovery program to just have a chance to talk out his issues with someone and I think he will be able to help others.  We have  been teaching Grace, who is the Bishop’s granddaughter.  The hard part is that Elder Dimartino got a bit off subject, and ended up teaching about Kolob and other deep topics.  I can’t help him much when he gets into those.   We met a new person, Maria, who is a Slovakian.  She is too new to have much info about right now, but she looks promising. We had a really solid lesson with her, again, until Elder Dimartino started into the mysteries.

December 7th
I can’t believe that I will be out 6 months this next week.   I went on exchanges with Elder Cain one day this week.  He is super relaxed and very English.  He has the proper Queen's English and the sense of humor to match, haha.  We have been working with Maria, who is Slovakian and is super good.  She has a little 18 month old who is crazy!  Maria is 21 and has a great desire to find God.  She was raised by her Lutheran missionary parents, but was never baptized or had any desire then.  We have continued to work with Dave.  He is doing well.  He has a great love of questions.  We have decided that he doesn’t necessarily want the answers, he just wants to know that we have them…hahah.  A lot of them he can’t understand because he is asking about the roof of the house before even having moved a shovelful for the foundation.   The young men from the ward fixed us dinner one night this week.  It was nice of them, and fun.   On Sunday, I found out that I’m being transferred to South Port.  My companion is from Sweden and goes home at the end of the transfer.  I am very excited.  South Port is a very posh area, with many older people.  Not sure how much teaching will happen, but I’m excited either way.  I’m sad that I will be leaving Maria and Dave. I have grown to love them, as well as several members of the ward here, and will certainly miss them.


Elder Tarbet

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Missionary Work in Crosby

Elder Dimartino, Elder Tarbet, Damien, and Brother Hatton


Elder Dimartino, Dave, and Elder Tarbet




Brother Hatton, Elder Dimartino, Dave, and Elder Tarbet



The 4 Elders that serve in Crosby (at church)



Book of Mormon class

October 19th—November 9th: A Summary of the Past Few Weeks

Here is a summary of the past few weeks—sorry for the delay! Not Logan's fault, but more the fault of his not so faithful blogging family.  

October 19th
This has been a good week!  We actually had some good things happen and Elder Dimartino has helped me get through some hard things and to understand some things better.  We have an investigator, Dave, who is progressing nicely.  He is facing some challenges but for now, we have been able to help him and teach him.  We also taught the Plan of Salvation to some drug dealers when we were tracting and didn’t realize it until 20/20 hindsight which was actually kind of amusing, thinking back on some of the stuff we said.  

It has cooled down a lot.  It is typically 10 degrees (Celsius, which is about 50 degrees Fahrenheit).  I have been buying my winter stuff.  I have bought some jumpers (the family was concerned that he was becoming a cross-dresser, but it is the English word for sweater) and a really nice coat.  It was good to have my Italian fashion consultant (Elder Dimartino) there to help me if Mom couldn’t be there. 

We have been getting to know some of the ward members more.  You mentioned being Shirley Watts's Facebook friend.  I really like her and she is totally crazy (fun crazy), and she reminds me a lot of Jean Weinberger, our neighbor.  She is a regular at our Book of Mormon class.  There was an issue last time and she said she wasn’t going to come anymore, but she came, which was a huge boost of spirit for me.  She is really great.  Mark Hatton is another one who is really kind to us and helps us a lot.  

On P-days, we have been going to Liverpool to shop and have gone to a couple of museums.  Nobody has been all that jazzed about going to the war type museums which is a shame.

You asked about our transportation.  We use busses and trains a lot.  The area here is smaller than Blackpool both by population and by area but the busses and trains are so much better so we use them a fair amount. 

October 26th
We taught Damien this week again.  It was at a dinner appointment with Brother Hattan.  Brother Hattan is a perfect person for Damien.  They are both fun.  We had liver at the dinner appointment which was the first time I have had liver.  It tasted like a strange roast beef.  After dinner Brother Hattan took us to Book of Mormon class, and Dave was there too, which was wonderful since we had forgotten to call and remind him.  After class we took him on a tour of the church and showed him the baptismal font, and he expressed a desire to be baptized.  We have dated him for November 14th

Throughout the week we continued to work with Dave, who is really good.  He is very smart and very sincere in his desire to change himself for the better and see this as a great chance.  As we meet with him, I honestly picture that man as a young men’s leader.  I can hear him saying. “Alright lads, we are going camping”…in just the proper English accent.   

We had a couple of street displays this week.  They were okay, but nothing really came out of them to report.

We have been getting to know the Collards, who are a part member family.  They are great.  Sister Collard has made us some of the best cakes, muffins, and cookies…all chocolate….all are to die for.

Sunday was a good day.  Dave came to Church and had put on some dress clothes which was really good.  At the end of the day, we went to the other Elder’s flat to hear about transfers.  I’m going to stay in Crosby with Elder Dimartino for another transfer.  It is going to be another good transfer hopefully. 

November 2nd
The highlight of the week was the mission fireside and it was very nice.  I really enjoy listening to President Ulrich speak.  He has such a strong testimony.  Brother Hattan took us and our investigator Dave.  Dave said it was an answer to his prayers to be surrounded by happy people.  A room full of happy people with no real reason to be happy.  President Ulrich’s testimony really touched him as well.   

It’s just been a relatively boring week.  At the street display a chav came up and was asking sincere questions, which is always good.   We did a lot of 2 man street displays which aren’t my favorite, but Elder Dimartino loves them.  They are hard.

You asked what I have learned from each of my companions so far.  From Elder Fernandez I learned how to relax a little bit and not take myself so seriously.  From Elder Faupula I learned that there is a time and season for all things, and I have learned a lot from Elder Dimartino about the gospel because he is very knowledgeable.  He knows so much and wants to make sure the people we are teaching know everything too.  That makes our lessons go a little long sometimes. 

We have been working with Nicole and Becky who have been really helpful.  One of them has been less active for years and is just coming back with the help of the other and the other is a convert.  They are both very good girls and have been so much help.  They are 27 and 31 years old.  

Our time changed a week ago, and so the sun goes down about 5:00 and comes up at about 8:00 now.

November 9th
This week has been pretty boring as Elder Dimartino has been sick.  He was sick on Thursday, determined to go out on Friday, which made him more sick so we were in on Saturday and Sunday.  I have used the time to read the Old Testament student manuals.  I am about ¾ of the way through them, which has been really good.  I have learned a lot.  I also organized the map of the area on my iPad—identifying the less actives and the potentials that we are working with.  I also scrubbed the mold off the window seal and other places.  I scrubbed so hard the mold is gone, but so is the paint. 

At a street display we taught a lovely Irish woman who was about infinity plus 12 years old.  She was crazy, but hilarious.  When we were through talking with her me and Elder Dimartino were grinning from ear to ear, which was good because the next appointment wasn’t there.  As we were walking away, Elder Dimartino saw a couple working on a garden and didn’t realize that they were contractors, so he stopped and offered to help.  They, of course, refused but we got talking.  Their names were Kelly and Alan, and we left them with a Book of Mormon and our phone number.  I don’t know if anything will come of it, but we can pray that it does. 

We met with both Damien and Dave too.  Every time we see Dave, I am just impressed with how the spirit works.  We go in with one lesson plan, but the spirit directs us to teach something different, and it ends up being a really good lesson.  Dave is getting some issues straightened out, but it will postpone his baptism for quite a while.  It is better than it could have been, and was actually an answer to Elder Dimartino’s fasting and prayer.  Damien is dated for November 21st, but we will see!!! 

You asked about the Collards, who is the lady who is Mom’s competition on baking…making wonderful cookies and cakes.  They moved here from Wales about 6 months ago.  We ran into one of the daughters at a street display and got their address to go stop by.  The mother has been a member for about 10+ years and the daughter who we met for about 5ish and the youngest has not been baptized.  The mother has poor health but she is very nice and has a great desire to learn.  She has had some interactions with the Jehovah’s Witnesses and quite likes their way of thinking so up to this point we have been trying to help her see the difference in how she feels with us versus with them.  We are trying to help her understand that we bring the spirit and they just bring facts.  

You asked about a gospel principle that I have gained a stronger testimony of lately.  It would have to be fasting.  When we were fasting for Dave, it was the hardest fast ever, my head was killing me.  Things are working out for Dave, albeit slowly, but I received a very great deal of comfort that our Heavenly Father does listen to and answer our prayers.  Sometimes we just have to take a bit of time sorting out those answers. 

Elder Tarbet


Sunday, October 18, 2015

October 18th: Missing This Smile!

Nothing better than receiving a picture of our favorite Elders from our new friends in England!

September 21st—October 11th: A Hard Couple of Weeks

We haven’t updated Logan’s blog for a few weeks.  He has been a bit down and has been struggling so his letters have been short.  Here are some excerpts of his emails for the last few weeks:

Alma to the Zoramites:
These last few weeks have been the hardest of my life. I have been run through the meat grinder if you will. I have been torn up and spit out. I think I am still in it to be honest. I have felt abandoned and spit upon but you have all gotten me though. In your own ways and in your own prayers on my behalf and in each of your emails. I now understand how Alma felt when he went to preach to the Zoramites.  They were the most stiffnecked and wicked people in all the land.  Well, that describes how I have felt lately.  We have run into a lot of unhappy, mean spirited people. 

You have all been amazing examples to me throughout my life—examples of love and of courage and of friendship. I love all of you more than I can put into words. I am so grateful to have each of you in my life and know that if I was missing one of you I would be missing a very key piece to getting me through this rough patch. Thank you so much.


Book of Mormon Class:
We teach a Book of Mormon class every other week.  We got tired of just reading through the chapters going from one person to another, so Elder Dimartino decided to actually use the white board and teach a lesson about the war chapters, since we both love them.  The class is suppose to be for investigators, but it is mostly the older people that come.  We have had Maggie, who we have been teaching there lately.

Elder Dimartino
He has 4 brothers and his family are members, but not active.  He was baptized when he was younger but that’s about it.  He wasn’t really active till about 19 or 20.  He has been out for 6 months, and has spent the whole time in Crosby.  He is 22.  His English is constantly improving.  He is a lot of fun and I have really enjoyed being with him.

General Conference
General Conference on the other side of the pond was fun.  We spent Saturday evening in Liverpool and watched Saturday morning.  We went in early on Sunday morning and watched all the other sessions but Sunday evening.  I will have to read those talks when they get published.

Members in Crosby
The branch is quite small, but the members have been very good to us.  We have been spending quite a bit of time with several of the less active families.  We have spent some time with a less active family the Collards, which has been a highlight.  They made us cake and cookies and they were properly nice cookies.  They were so good.  I think that Mom might have some competition on her cookies!!  We had two sisters from our ward talk to us at conference and basically planned out for us how we are going to get everyone baptized.

We have also worked with two members Nicole and Becky.  They have been amazing and have been what has kept me sane because they are just so positive.  They gave me a journal with all kinds of positive quotes written inside the cover.  They had given Elder Dimartino a goody box a few weeks ago when he was “getting transferred” (he got transferred to me, changing apartments, but staying in Crosby).  
Here is a text I received from a lady we have been working with.  It made my day:

"Be not afraid of moving slowly, be only afraid of standing still. Chinese proverb. Sometimes it may seem like you are getting nowhere fast, but don't be discouraged, your actions have more effect than you realise.  The message you left cheered me up. It was in line with what Nicole and I had been studying. It sparked a discussion about faith between my nanny, dad and I that lasted well over an hour. Some disagreements occurred but were settled by reading from the bible dictionary.  After reading, my nanny (a very strong stuck-in-her-ways Catholic) said "I'm glad that you are a Mormon, it may not be the true religion but at least it teaches good principles and everything that they've said about faith is true." After leaving Nanny's, me and my dad continued talking about faith.  We re-read what it said in the bible dictionary and read the scriptures listed there. I told my dad about the scripture you guys had recommended and we read it together. (I have never read scriptures with my dad before in my life!). We started talking about our own faith and what we had confidence in. (Or in a very conversational way we bore our testimonies). All this came from one slip of paper. Don't underestimate yourselves, you have more impact than you know."

Weather

For the most part it has been the warmest I have had in England. 

Elder Tarbet

September 28th: A Spoof of the District Videos